Saturday, April 6, 2013

How To Grow Natural Hair- 5 Easy Steps


Ah! The age old question, how to get amazing hair growth?. Now it's common to hear (thankfully) women say "Black women can have long healthy hair!" but, the question is, how? With so many women touting this fact you would think everyone seeking longer hair would have it, right? Wrong. There is such a thing as too much information. As with all things we make things way harder then they need to be, hair growth is no different. This post is going to simply if all for you in 5 easy steps.

If you're not seeing hair growth, remember these 2 hair facts:

1. Your hair grows. If you are relatively healthy, have no under lying damage to your hair follicles (like Alopecia and/or baldness), your hair is growing. In fact, it is growing about 1/4 to 1 inch a month.

2. Growing your hair is not the problem. The problem is retaining what you've grown. If your hair has been stalling at the same length for months or years, your hair is breaking off. More specifically, it's breaking off at the same rate it is growing out. For example: If your hair is 5 inches long and grows and 1 inch a month but, breaks 1 inch a month (probably little 1/4 inch pieces at a time), your hair will stay 5 inches month after month.

Now here is how to start seeing some hair growth; retaining length:

1. Trim off all damaged, scraggly ends. If you are confident in your own skills, you can trim your hair yourself but, going to a professional for this cut would ensure all the damaged weak hair is cut off. Even if you're 100% natural, if your ends are breaking, your ends are probably weak and a trim will get rid of split and weathered ends. It's easier to maintain healthy ends, weak ends will look thin and get weaker over time.

2. Establish a solid hair regimen. This can take up to a month or 2 to establish but, it's worth it. Find out how often you need to shampoo, condition and deep condition your hair. How long does your hair stay moisturized?  By the end of the month you should have a regimen that looks similar to this (fitting your hair needs of course, this is just an example):

Regimen:
Detangle 1x a week on damp hair.
Shampoo 1x a week
Alternate protein and moisturizing conditioner every other week.
Deep Condition 2x a month
Use spray leave-in, cream moisturizer and seal ends 2x a week.

3. Be consistent. Once you find out what works stick to the same regimen week after week. You can switch up products but, research them first and switch products only AFTER you've learned your hair. Learn what ingredients your hair likes and then venture out of your box.

4. Low manipulation. I have to say most women, who are able to retain almost all of their hair length use very low hair manipulation. Most stick to twist outs, braid outs, protective styles, buns, etc. Remember the more you comb and pull your hair, the more damage you're doing to it. It's like wearing and washing the same clothes every week, over time they will get raggedy, same with your hair. When you're trying to grow out your hair, you want it to be as healthy as it can be to avoid unnecessary trims and breakage due to weak over manipulated ends (that's what breaks off).

After you've done all of this....here is the last step:

5. Stop researching. What!? Yes, stop. Once you find what works for you, don't keep looking for new things to do with your hair. Concentrate on staying consistent. There is so much information online about hair care and arguments positive and negative for just about every hair technique you can think of, that you will never get a solid regimen and you will second guess everything you do. If it's not broke don't fix it or try to.

That's it! That's all! I promise you every woman I have come across who is trying to grow out their hair, comes to these same 5 conclusions. Try it and then let me know how much hair you grow 6-12 months. :)

Originally posted 2/28/12

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Saturday, November 17, 2012

Lia Naturals Black Friday SALE!!!





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Stuff I Don't Like- Hair Edition

There is a trend on YouTube where folks are making videos called "Stuff I Don't Like", where they talk about pet peeves and other things that aggravate them. I thought it would be fun to do a blog version about what else?! Hair!

Remember this is all in fun and if you have a blog, you can do it too!

Stuff I Don't Like- Hair Edition (these are in no particular order)

  1. Little children with relaxers. The chemicals in relaxers are too strong for children. I don't even know how folks get 2-5 years olds to still long enough to apply the cream.
  2. Bad Lacefronts. I don't know if folks just don't have mirrors or friends but, I'm so tired of seeing folks with those jacked up hairlines. Check out Muffinismylovers on YouTube for tips, she is the bomb.com.
  3. People who don't care about their hair health. I know folks are busy and have lives but, your hair is a part of you just as much as your eyes, mouth, feet, etc. If your hair is breaking, dry, brittle, etc. get it fixed! Don't cover it with a wig, get it healthy! 
  4. Children with weave. Braids are okay but, tracks and wigs. No. 
  5. Shaved sides. Sorry, I know it's a trend but, it looks just plain stupid to me. When did it become okay for people over 21 to walk around with half a head of hair? 
  6. Mohawks. Please can we stop this trend? Please and thank you. 
  7. Unkept dreadlocks. I have no problems with locs, love them when they are kept up and most importantly washed. Keep it tight and fresh and we cool. 
  8. Seeing weave in the road. I promise, it doesn't matter where you are, there is always a lone track on the side of the road. What is up with that?!
I have more but, I'll spare y'all as I don't want to offend! Do you have blog? Tell me, what's some stuff you don't like when it comes to hair? Don't blog? Leave a comment! 



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Thursday, November 8, 2012

What I've Been Up To, Black Friday, Soap...Yeah.

Hi all!

I know you are noticing a lack of posts around here lately. I just...don't have the time to blog like I used to and want to. My business: Lia Naturals is growing and I have been soaping like a mad woman in my spare time. Here are some soapy pics for you all.













I hope all the pics make up for my absence in posting!

I'm also trying to gear up for our Black Friday Sale! A lot of you all participated in last years sale and this year we have new products, new scents, and some changes.


Hopefully, I'll be back to posting like I want to.
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Sunday, October 28, 2012

15 Inexpensive Natural Hair Products

The Natural Review recently made a post with 15 Natural Hair Products $15 & Under.


1. Cupuacu Hair Butter by Pura Body Naturals $14 (4 oz)
This is a nice alternative to the regular shea butter. I also like the gentle vanilla scent.

2. Kinky Curly Knot Today by Kinky Curly $12 (8 oz)
I’ve used this one regularly. It’s very lightweight. The other bonus to this product is that you can find it at Target.
3. Hair Dew by Oyin Handmade $13 (8.4 oz)
This is one of my favorite products. It’s great as a leave-in or a daily moisturizer. I had to buy the biggest size because I was using it so much.
4. Ultimate Conditioning Shampoo by Karen’s Body Beautiful $12 (7.1 oz)
This is a great shampoo that you can get in a variety of fragrances. It can also come unscented.
5. Cococurls Curly Styling Aid $15 (8 oz)
This product smells like cake. I love it. It also has a nice creamy texture.
6. Coil Jam by Curly Kinks $13 (8 oz)
This is a great natural gel. No flaking or crunchy hair. I got great wash and go results with this. I also used it for twists with great results.

7. Refreshed Hydrating Hair Serum by C.U.S.H. Cosmetics $14 (8 oz)
C.U.S.H. Cosmetics makes excellent products for hair and skin. This is one of the products from their hair collection.

Hop on over to The Natural Review for the rest of the list! 



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Monday, October 15, 2012

3 Tips To Help You Deal With Postpartum Shedding



So, with my baby being 4 months old, I've hit, ran full smack into natural hair postpartum shedding. Ugh! For those who may not know, after you have a baby most women go through postpartum shedding. This is when your natural hair comes... no FALLS, out. I'm not trying to scare you...it's really that bad. My natural hair is shedding in clumps. I shed about a full cup of hair each detangling session. I've come to accept the shedding and even have some tips to help others deal with postpartum shedding.

From what I've gathered, there isn't much you can do to lessen or stop postpartum shedding. It's supposedly a side effect of the hormonal change that occurs after giving birth. So like I said, I just manage it the best way I can until it stops. Here's how I manage postpartum shedding.


1. Keep It Simple

Find a a style you like and stick with it, all week or until wash day. The more you manipulate your hair, the more shed hair will come out on your hands and clothes, thus reminding you or your condition. Just leave your hair alone. Right now is not the time to try new styles and be rigorous with your hair. Be gentle and patient.

2. Diligently Detangle

With so much shed hair, the number of tangles you get increases 100 fold. When you detangle, you need to be thorough or you will end up with locs, dreads, and matted hair. Right now is not the time to be afraid of pulling hair out. Get in there and get 'er done from root to tip. I use the Beautique brush from Sally's that is a replica of the Denman brush.

3. Wash Hair In Sections

If you co-wash during the week like I tend to, you need to make sure you do it in sections. When I would co-wash and then wet bun, my hair would be so matted. The shed hair would get tangled in my curls and it would just be a mess. So now I co-wash in 6-8 twists or braids and let my hair dry that way as well.

Hope this helps some of you!! If you have any questions leave them below!


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Monday, August 27, 2012

Product Review- Honey Chile Hair Love




Honey Blosson Twist And Loc Souffle
By:
Honey Chile Hair Love
Ingredients: Unrefined Shea Butter, Avocado Butter, Raw Honey, Soybean Oil, Avocado Oil, Coconut Oil, & a natural preservative

My thoughts: I like this souffle ALOT! It is nice and smooth, goes on easy and sinks into both my hair and skin quickly. I was really impressed with how smooth and light this mix is. I used it on both my hair and my body.

The name suggests to use it to twist the hair, I used it to twist blown out hair and while I did get some definition, it didn't have much hold. For twisting, I have to say it didn't do much to my hair. My hair was soft but, I did need more hold than this product gave.

Would I purchase this product? Yes, I would. The price is at $13.25, which is reasonable.

The ingredients are nice and simple and I have been wanting to try avocado butter for some time and for that ingredient alone, I would buy this souffle.

Since I make and sell whipped butter mixes, I am a hard person to sell butters too. This product is one I would easily add to my rotation right along with my own butters and that is saying A LOT!

Please check out the website at: http://www.honeychilehairlove.com

*I was sent this product to review and all opinions are my own.

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Thursday, August 23, 2012

Am I Worried About Heat Damage?

August 2012 BlowOut
I've recently gotten my natural hair blown out and straightened at a Dominican salon. I've gotten quite a few questions about heat damage and the amount of heat used and the effect it may have on my natural hair.

I just want clarify, I did not get a Dominican blowout. A Dominican blowout is where they use scorching hot blow dryers and blow your hair out. They don't have to use a flat iron after the process, the blow dryer gets it straight enough. Here is a video of a Dominican Blowout: YoutubeVideo

I have nothing against women who get them, to each his own but, a Dominican blowout is too much heat for me. They say those blowdryers get really hot! I saw one video and the girl was wincing every time the lady blowdried a section of her hair. I could only imagine what all that heat does to the scalp, much less the hair. No thanks on that.

I simply got a my hair blown out, very thoroughly but, the heat was the same as with my own blow dryer. When she finished blowdrying, she had to flat iron my hair to get it smooth.

Now about heat damage, no I'm not worried about it. She used heat protectant on each section as well. I may still get heat damage but, it's a risk you take whenever you get your hair straightened. I've had my hair blown out like this before and it was fine, I've also done my own hair like this before and experienced no heat damage whatsoever.

If I do end up with heat damage, I'll just grow it out and then cut it off. No worries.

Now with that said; if you have not reached your hair length and health goals I would not advise you to get this done. I've been taking care of my hair for over 3 years and I'd be okay if I had to start over; I know what to do to grow it back to this length.

Have any of you experienced heat damage? If so, what did you do?


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Wednesday, August 22, 2012

My Domincan Salon Visit And A Length Check

I recently made a trip to a local Dominican hair salon for a blow out & flat iron on my natural hair. My experience at this hair salon (Diva Latinas in Charleston, SC) reminded me of why I used to like going to salons AND why I prefer to do my natural hair myself. Here is a quick recap of my natural hair salon experience.

Negatives:

  • Very rough while detangling. It was obvious that they did not like doing my kinky hair.
  • Rude. Spoke in Spanish to each other while every client in the salon only spoke English. 
  • Old dirty products. I'm glad I brought my own! 
  • Loud Spanish music. For the cost, I thought the loud music was very unprofessional.  
  • Knew nothing about hair health. Gave no tips on how to maintain healthy kinky/curly hair and even told me to keep coming back so she could loosen my curls. 
  • They charge more depending on the length and texture of your hair. I had to pay double price. 
  • You don't know the price until they see and feel your hair. 
Positives:
  • Quick. I was in and out in about an hour. 
  • No upselling. They didn't offer me any extra services. They didn't try to get extra money out of me.
  • They allowed me to bring my own products for them to use.
  • They gave me a trim and trimmed off only what was needed. (like a 1/4 inch all around)
  • My hair came out beautiful! My hair has NEVER been this straight. 
Would I go back? To this particular salon, no I will not. Though I went at the advisement of a friend, I don't think her experiences are much different than mine. 


Here are the results:


Here is a comparison of my hair from November 2011- 8 months ago:



As for my hair length; I don't think I will concentrate on growing it any longer. I am fairly tall at 5'8-ish and this just feels like enough hair for me. My hair is right at the tip of waist-length.

After this salon visit, I am so thankful I can do my hair myself. If I had to deal with other people doing my hair often, I would cut it all off. I have had  my hair professionally done twice while natural and neither of them seemed too pleased to deal with kinky/curly hair which resulted in them being way too rough.

Hope you like the pictures! Please be careful going to these salons guys, people can and will take advantage of you! I had to give the girl detangling my hair the "comb my hair hard again and see what I do to you" face more than once. I'd hate for any of you to think you have to let someone roughen up your hair to get a nice style, you don't.

Overall my hair is very healthy. The hair stylist even commented on the health of my hair and how I should keep it chemical free. I will admit, my hair is a lot healthier than I thought it was. She cut off very little and my hair feels awesome!




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Monday, August 20, 2012

How To Save Hundreds Of Dollars In Natural Hair Products


There are many benefits to being a "Do It Yourself" person when it comes to natural hair care. We all know making your own natural hair products can save you hundreds of dollars but, did you know that researching ingredients can save you just as much money if not more?

 I know you're probably thinking, how? read on...

Years ago wholesale information used to be top secret. Now, with the internet you can see exactly where leading brands are purchasing their bulk ingredients to make their natural hair products. Using this to your advantage saves you money helps you gauge how should cost to make a hair care product.

For example, a leave-in conditioner consists of 70-80% water with 20-30% being the herbs, conditioning ingredients, butters & oils. In a 8 oz. bottle of conditioner, that is less than .5-1 oz. of  many of the ingredients.

So, even if you choose not to make your own products, some DIY research can keep you from over-spending and paying for pretty packaging! I can not tell you how many brands I don't even consider after taking a quick look at the ingredients and comparing that to the retail price.

Like I always say, using natural products does not have to cost you a lot of money if you educate yourself!

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